Wednesday, December 31, 2008

2008 in Review

What a year! We have had quite the year from adjusting to life in a new country to welcoming a new life into our family. We've had lots of adventures as we have made Holland our home. We've had the opportunity to travel to Germany, France, Spain, Belgium, England, and Scotland. It's been amazing to see some sites that I never thought I would see. I never dreamed of going to Paris or London, but those experiences have occurred. It goes to show that you never know what life will bring. We have enjoyed visits from grandparents and uncles. It's helped making being so far away from our American home a bit easier.

Rachel has been so much fun to watch this past year. She's grown and learned so much. She's our little chatterbox. She continually amazes us with how much she has changed this past year. Her current favorite thing to do is read to us the stories of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs and Beauty and the Beast. I absolutely love it when she says "fairest of them all" and "happily ever ever after". Too cute! Rachel definitely keeps us on our toes and keeps us smiling.

Audrey will officially be 3 weeks tomorrow. In some ways it seems like she's been around a lot longer than that. She certainly fits right in and we are enjoying her. So far she's a better sleeper than Rachel was. We'll see how the next couple of months go... :) She sleeps really good at night and decently during the day. She's up every 3-4 hours at night, but once she's fed she goes right back to sleep. That's something her big sister didn't do very well! We definitely feel blessed to have her in our family and that she is doing so well.

Life has definitely been good to us this year. We feel very blessed. We've grown and learned a lot as we have adjusted to our life in Holland. We are enjoying our adventure over here, but when it's time to go home we'll be ready. We miss our family and some American comforts, but overall things are good. It will be interesting to see what 2009 has in store for our family!

Monday, December 29, 2008

Canal Ice Skating

That's the canal across the street from our home and those are my crazy Dutch neighbors. I looked out the window this afternoon and noticed people out skating. I personally think it's crazy to trust the ice, but I guess the Dutch know what they are doing. Rachel and I ran across the street and watched them for a few minutes. We only lasted a few minutes, because boy was it cold!

Three Lucky Girls

There are three lucky girls in Holland. Their daddy and husband has taken such good care of them the past 2 1/2 weeks. He of course got me beautiful flowers. Rachel was so excited to bring home flowers for mommy. It has been so nice to have Andy around so much. Rachel loved spending time with her daddy. Andy would get up with Rachel and let me sleep in. He's taken Rachel several places during the day so I could get some rest. Andy's done all the grocery shopping and errand running. He hasn't complained (as I'm sure he's tired as well). We're kind of in close quarters here so if Audrey's up in the middle of the night neither of us are getting much sleep. He's dealt with emotional girls the past couple of weeks and done a great job. Today was our official first day of Andy being at work all day. It's gone well and we've made it through it. The girls both took a 2-hour nap at the same time. It was some nice down time for mom! :) I am definitely grateful for the husband and father that Andy is. We are definitely blessed to have him to take such good care of us!

Friday, December 26, 2008

Celebrating Christmas

We had a pretty laid back Christmas this year. Here are the girls on Christmas Eve (it even looks like Audrey is trying to smile):
Christmas morning we headed downstairs around 8:30. Audrey was still sleeping, so it worked out pretty well. Rachel spotted her stocking and went straight for it. She enjoyed emptying it all out. This was the first year she actually got a stocking. Rachel definitely received the lion's share of gifts this year. She was spoiled by grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Rachel had fun going back and forth to get presents from under the tree.
As soon as all the presents were opened Audrey decided to wake up. So, we took a little break. Rachel enjoyed a bowl of frosties and Audrey got fed. Andy made french toast later on that we all enjoyed as well! After Audrey was content we unveiled the gift from Santa Claus. Rachel sure enjoys her new kitchen! She enjoys making us soup and washing the dishes. The kitchen should bring hours of fun in the future.
We definitely enjoyed our Christmas day. We hope everyone else had an enjoyable Christmas.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Uniquely Dutch

This past week we have definitely learned about some unique Dutch customs and ways of doing things. Shortly after Audrey was born the nurse brought in beschuit met muisjes for us to eat. They were basically hard biscuits with butter and sprinkles on top. The sprinkles tasted like black licorice. Our biscuits were decorated with pink and white sprinkles since we had a girl! I also received a box of chocolates from a lady at church. On the outside there was a mini beschuit met muisjes. The proud new Dutch parents usually treat their friends to the biscuits when they come to visit the baby. Also, another thing that was quite different was during labor they brought me food. It was basic food, bread and cheese, but food nonetheless. They also allowed me to drink water. I could have had tea if I wanted. In the U.S. all they allowed were ice chips. So, a bit different. Even though I was sent home from the hospital 4 hours after Audrey arrived help was not far away. As a matter of fact, we phoned the midwife at 3 am that first night we were home. Audrey was spitting up some pretty dark stuff and we were concerned. After a quick call to the midwife our worries were taken care of as she explained it was just some blood that the baby had swallowed. In the past week I have been visited by the midwife in our home 4 times - Friday, Sunday, Tuesday, and Thursday. On Sunday and Tuesday they weighed Audrey. I found the weighing device they had very interesting. Yes, that little bundle is sleeping Audrey. Both times they came to weigh her she was sound asleep and she slept through the whole thing. What a good baby! :) On Sunday Audrey was below her birth weight, which is how things usually are. By Tuesday Audrey was well over her birth weight at 8 1/2 pounds. She's eating well and growing lots. We also had a home visit from the consultatiebureau on Wednesday. The consultatiebureau is basically a baby clinic that is used for the first 4 years of your child's life. I'll take Audrey there for her immunizations and routine check-ups. On Wednesday they took some of her blood and performed the hearing test. They are coming to our home again on Tuesday for another check-up. I have to take Audrey to the clinic for her first round of immunizations when she is 6 weeks old. Our kraamzorg experience turned out great! Once I got home on Thursday night I called the kraamzorg service and told them I was home with my baby. Friday morning at 9:30 Monique showed up to take care of us. She came to house for 7 days, 6 hours a day. I didn't have to lift a finger! She took care of everything from Rachel to me to Audrey to cooking to shopping to cleaning. It was wonderful. Rachel really became quite attached to her and was upset when she would get up from her nap and Monique was gone. Even though Rachel was being a stinker and wouldn't smile in the above picture - she really did enjoy Monique. I am glad things turned out as well as they did. I was a little concerned about how I would like having someone in our home, but it turned out just fine.
Andy has already registered Audrey's birth. We currently have a Dutch birth certificate and an International birth certificate for her. Many have asked if Audrey will have dual citizenship and she won't. In order to have Dutch citizenship one of the parents has to be Dutch. Next week some time we are planning on going U.S. Consulate to apply for Audrey's birth certificate, social security card, and passport. It should be interesting how they take a passport picture of a newborn!

So, overall we have enjoyed our Dutch experience of having a baby. Everything has gone well. Andy has been home for the majority of the past week. He would go to work while the kraamzorg was here and then come home in the afternoon. Andy will be home all this next week to help out as well. It has definitely been nice since Rachel has needed some extra attention. So, we are doing well and adjusting to having two little ones.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Audrey's Arrival

As many people know, we were somewhat nervous about the birthing experience we would experience here in Holland. Luckily it turned out to be a very positive one and we are grateful that all went as well as it did.

Wednesday night I didn't get much sleep. I believe I finally fell asleep around 2 am and slept until about 5 am. Finally around 6 am I just got up because the contractions were coming more frequently. They still weren't 5 minutes apart, so I figured we'd just keep on waiting. Well, by 8:30 am I decided to call the midwife. Within 20 minutes she arrived at our home. It was determined that we needed to head to the hospital. The midwife got on her cell phone to call the hospital. I called my friend Merry Ann to come pick Rachel up. We were a bit nervous because the midwife stated that I might be too far dilated for an epidural. So, we wanted to get to the hospital as soon as possible!

The Amstelveen hospital didn't have any room, so she called the Amsterdam hospital. Luckily they had room and it's only a 15 minute drive away. The midwife informed them we were on our way. Merry Ann was at our house within 10 minutes and Rachel was more than happy to go with her. So, off we drove to the hospital. By 9:30, we were checked into the hospital room. Around 10 am the midwife broke my water and then a doctor came in to determine whether or not I could have an epidural. All looked well and he gave us the go ahead. They gave me an IV and hooked up tons of other stuff to me and the baby. They paged the anesthesiologist.

By 10:30 am my contractions were really uncomfortable. After each one I just kept on thinking, this is the last one and then I'll have the epidural. Well, that whole process didn't occur until around noon. I guess there's only one anesthesiologist for the whole hospital. Needless to say once he walked in the room I was relieved. After being poked 4 times it was a success. They kept on asking me if it was like this with Rachel. And I kept on telling them that it had only taken one poke with her. So, he'd poke me, it wouldn't work, I'd have a contraction and think this is the last one, and then he'd get ready for another one, and then another contraction would come, etc... But by 12:30 I was feeling great! The magic of epidurals! :)

Once the epidural took effect the midwife left. I was officially in the care of the doctor now. It was kind of weird having somebody I just barely met be the one to help with the delivery. But I guess that is just how they do things here.

Two hours later I started actually feeling some contractions. We paged the nurse and I informed her that it felt like it was time for Audrey to arrive. She paged the doctor and he showed up about 15 minutes later. I was getting a bit anxious, but it worked out. He then informed me that in fact it was time to start pushing. Thanks captain obvious! :) I will have to say that I am grateful I had an epidural. I definitely felt a lot more this time around than with Rachel, so it would have been quite interesting without one. I don't think the epidurals are as strong over here in Holland. :)

After about 30 minutes of pushing Audrey arrived. She came out screaming and that was a great sound to hear! They weighed Audrey, but they didn't measure her. They don't measure babies here because they don't want to hurt their hips. She didn't get a bath after she was born, but they wiped her off pretty good.

Now here's the amazing part to me. Thirty minutes after giving birth the doctor informed me that I was free and clear to go home that night. What??? Go home already? Well, we were still planning on me staying the night. However, by 5 pm the nurse sent me to the shower. While I was in the shower she informed Andy that there was no room for me in the hospital and there was no medical reason for me to stay. So, by 7:30 pm I was wheeled out to our car and sent home. We officially spent 10 hours in the hospital. Crazy I know, but luckily everything worked out.

Andy took us home and then he went to pick up Rachel. By 8:30 pm we were spending time together for the first time as a family of 4. Rachel was pretty curious about her new little sister. She had enjoyed the day with her friend Sophia and we hadn't worried about her a bit.

We feel so blessed to have Audrey a part of our family!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Quite the Compliment

This cute big sister gave me quite the compliment on Saturday. She informed me, matter-of-factly, that my "tummy was small". What a good girl! :)

Monday, December 8, 2008

Not something you see every day...

You may be wondering what Rachel is doing in a swimsuit when we are lucky for the temperature to reach 40 degrees? Well, this morning (like every morning) I asked Rachel to go pick out what she was going to wear today and this is what she came up with. I tried to convince her to only wear her swimsuit for a few minutes but it didn't work. I was able to get her to put some clothes on over her swimsuit while we went to the store, but once we got back home she was ready to just be in her swimsuit again. I found it quite hilarious to see her playing with the Christmas ornaments in a swimsuit. Rachel even insisted on taking a nap in her swimsuit. I was a bit concerned about how well she would nap, but after a 3-hour nap we can call it a success! Maybe I'll let her nap in her swimsuit every day! :) I wonder what her dad is going to think when he gets home from work...

O Christmas Tree

We had a busy day on Saturday! :) We went out to the local garden center to get a tree and then we spent the evening decorating it. Rachel was really cute at the garden center marching around behind her daddy to help find the perfect tree. Christmas is always fun with little ones as you get to see their excitement. Here are some pictures as we were decorating: This is a glimpse at what the final product looks like. After decorating Saturday night I told Andy we could rearrange the ornaments after Rachel went to bed. Well, we've decided that's pointless. She enjoys taking them off and putting them back on a million times a day. Most of the ornaments are in little clusters 2-3 feet above the ground. At least they are just cheap little ornaments that we don't really care about. :)

Christmas decorating here is a bit sparse. We basically have a tree and Rachel's Little People Nativity Set. We didn't bother shipping over Christmas stuff because of the lack of storage space. So, we definitely enjoy our tree. Rachel loves to come downstairs every morning and turn the Christmas tree lights on.

Saturday morning we also went to a little cheese farm/clog factory that is close by. It's a great place for souvenirs. We picked up some Dutch-looking ornaments that we will be able to enjoy in years to come. My favorites are the ones that we had especially made for Rachel and our baby girl:
Andy and I were talking about how Rachel hasn't even had the experience of a U.S. Christmas. Her first Christmas was in New Zealand and the last two have been here. So far Rachel's collection of ornaments include one from New Zealand, one from the German Christmas Markets, and one from Holland. I guess once we are back home her ornaments won't be nearly as exciting! :)